Welcome to Date Room

Why our members love Date Room

Real time conversations - forget messaging back and forth for days, or weeks without ever meeting. Our events put you face to face with other singles in a structured yet relaxed environment, right from your laptop or PC. You get seven minutes per date just enough time to get a feel for the person and spark a meaningful connection.

Everyone there to meet someone - everyone in the room is there for the same reason, to meet potential partners. This shared goal means you can skip the awkward small talk and get straight to the juicy stuff. No one’s there to play games, well, at least not the bad ones.

Meet multiple potential matches - you get to meet a diverse group of people in one night. You might find someone who’s your complete opposite or someone who shares your love for obscure documentaries. Either way, it’s a chance to expand your horizons and maybe find a hidden gem.

Curated to ensure you're relaxed - we group attendees by age and location for each event to help create a comfortable and relatable dating experience. Our goal is to foster a respectful and welcoming space where genuine connections can happen. If you ever have questions or need support, our friendly team is just an email away.

Immediate interaction - there’s no better way to gauge chemistry than face to face interaction. You can pick up on body language, tone, and those all important vibes that a profile pic just can’t convey. It’s like speed reading, but for hearts.

No Pressure, Just Possibilities we understand that dating can be daunting, especially if you’re getting back out there after some time away. Our events are designed to be supportive and welcoming, helping you ease back into the dating world with friendly faces and zero pressure.

TESTIMONIALS

What our members are saying

"Great conversation"

"Thank you for last night’s event. I met two lovely men and had great conversations."

Auckland April 2025

"Better than dating sites"

"This was so much better than the dating sites I have previously been on. To be able to physically see

and talk to a person was great."

Auckland April 2025

"Time went by very fast"

"The seven minutes went by very fast, in fact in one case I don’t think we had time to end the conversation!"

Auckland April 2025

TESTIMONIAL

"It was about getting myself out there again"

"Whether I made a lasting connection with the other person isn’t important to me,

it was about getting myself out there again after my separation a couple of years ago.

Though having said that, I did get asked for a catch up coffee at some point!

Looking forward to the next event.”.

Auckland April 2025

STILL NOT SURE?

Frequently Asked Questions

Here is a list of the questions and answers we get asked.

Question 1: How It Works?

Our online speed dating events are designed to bring the fun of traditional speed dating right into your home. In just one session, you’ll meet several potential matches through brief, one-on-one video chats. You can use your phone, PC or laptop, whatever is easier!You can choose to share personal details with the person you’re chatting with during the event or keep it private and continue the conversation later using our free messenger service. With nicknames, there’s no pressure to share anything until you’re completely comfortable!

Question 2: Is it safe and secure?

You can feel safe using Date Room, as we've designed it from the ground up with security in mind.

Question 3: How do I get started?

Choose Your Event - Find a speed dating event in your preferred age group and location. We recommend staying local, as the goal is to meet up with your matches once you get to know them better!

Sign Up & Pay - Events are posted about three weeks in advance, so grab your spot early! You’ll receive a reminder two days before the event don’t forget to mark your calendar!

Check Your Inbox - Look out for your confirmation email with all the event details.

Prep for Success - Read our tips and advice to make the most of your date night.

Get Excited - On the event day, get ready as if you’re going to a real date—dress up or just be casual, grab your favourite drink, and take a deep breath.

Join Early - Log in 10 minutes before the event starts to test your mic and camera. Don’t worry—we’ll send you troubleshooting tips ahead of time!

Let’s Go Live! - nce the event begins, you’ll spend around 7 minutes chatting with each participant.

Stay Connected After the Event - You decide what to share! Chat during the event and exchange details if you’d like, or keep things private and continue the conversation later with our free messenger service. With nicknames, there’s no pressure to reveal anything until you’re fully comfortable!

Question 4: What is the Date Room difference?

Unlike swipe based platforms that focus on appearances, we believe in fostering meaningful connections. With real time conversations, you’ll get to know someone based on their personality and interests leading to deeper, more genuine relationships.

Instead of endless profiles to scroll through, Date Room offers a more focused and curated experience. You’ll meet people who in your area and age group, giving you quality interactions rather than an overwhelming number of choices.

Our speed dating events bring back real conversation. No more shallow, short-lived chats here, you get face to face video interactions that allow you to truly connect from the start. It’s a refreshing break from endless texting!

You’ll also notice the consistency. Everyone attending is there to meet someone, actively engaging in the experience, so no more ghosting or disappearing acts.

There’s no pressure to compete for attention or craft the perfect profile either. The vibe here is relaxed and fun just show up, be yourself, and enjoy real conversations that lead to real connections.

And, of course, your safety is our priority. With active moderation during events, you can feel secure knowing you’re meeting real people with genuine intentions.

While many platforms cater to casual encounters, Date Room is all about meaningful connections. If you’re looking for something deeper, our events are designed with you in mind.

All of this makes Date Room the perfect alternative to swipe based dating apps. Ready to connect in a more meaningful way? Let’s make it happen!